Thursday, April 29, 2010

Do Family reunions leave you hesitant, tentative?

Genesis 33:1-3


Jan and I enjoy being part of our family, in fact we have often hosted both sides of the family for a reunion at our home.  This year we hosted Jan’s mother’s side of the family, and it was a great time for all, we had about one hundred people who were part of the Mabry family.  Two weeks later we drove to Estes Park, Colorado, to be part of the Golden’ reunion on my mother’s side of the family, and it was a great time of remembering our parents, and just catching up on what each of the families are doing.

Some of Jan’s family had not been together for forty years and one day was not enough time to catch-up, but what if those who had been away from the family had left with bad blood between them and other members of the family; that’s where Jacob found himself.  Picking up the story in verse one; “And Jacob lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold Esau was coming, and four hundred men with him.  So he divided the children among Leah and Rachel and the two female servants.  And he put the servants with their children in front, then Leah and with her children, and Rachel and Joseph last of all.  He himself went on before them, bowing himself to the ground seven times, until he came near to his brother.”

Many things become clear in these three verses, and one that jumps off the page is that Jacob is a little hesitant, tentative, and uncertain about this family reunion.  On a scale of 1-10, ten being the top end of Jacob’s emotions, he is maxing out at twelve.  All Jacob can see is 400 men coming and it does not look good.  It is also very clear how he values each member of his family and though all turned out well with Esau, his sons never forgot that their dad put Joseph in the far back were he stood the best chance of survival.

From the Back Porch,

Bob Rice

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